Advice for the Father of the Bride

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The Wedding Has Happened
We had 60 guests for the five days. During the wedding itself, there was one staff member who would pop up at my side with a fresh drink any time that my glass got down to the bottom third. It was an unbelievable time.
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Posted by Ken York at 11/14/2006 9:54 AM | View Comments (1) | Add Comment | Trackbacks (0)
Cult of the Sea King and Weddings
We’ve sent out a wedding update newsletter. We’re letting people make their way from the airport to the villa. In the newsletter I put directions to the villa in both Spanish and English for the guests to give to a taxi driver.
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Posted by Ken York at 8/22/2006 9:12 AM | View Comments (0) | Add Comment | Trackbacks (0)
Wedding Toast and Speech
One of the few commonly recognized responsibilities for the father of the bride is giving a wedding day toast. You should also be prepared to give a toast at the rehearsal dinner. Here is a chance for you to shine or fall on your sword. Both happen on a regular basis on wedding days.
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Posted by Ken York at 8/4/2006 10:27 AM | View Comments (2) | Add Comment | Trackbacks (0)
An Interview with Ken York
Mike: What's your daughter and future son-in-law think about your blog? Ken: I didn’t tell them initially, figuring I’d tick them off since I’m pretty honest about everything. But I did confess to my daughter about two weeks into it and she said she thinks it’s great. I don’t think she read all the posts, especially the one where I talked about her telling me that I had to pay for her wedding.
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Posted by Ken York at 7/20/2006 7:53 AM | View Comments (4) | Add Comment | Trackbacks (0)
Free Wedding Checklist
The wedding checklist is oriented towards the whole wedding event, not just the Father of the Bride. If it were, it would have many more items such as: Whiskey flask, spare whiskey flask, cigars, etc.
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Posted by Ken York at 7/18/2006 10:03 AM | View Comments (1) | Add Comment | Trackbacks (0)
Cigars and Weddings
If you’re going the box route, select cigars that are hand-rolled and noted for quality. Stay away from anything available in your local supermarket or that has ‘Happy Wedding’ printed on it. Although these are smokeable they’re not very enjoyable.
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Posted by Ken York at 7/14/2006 4:05 PM | View Comments (0) | Add Comment | Trackbacks (0)
Destination Weddings--A Great Alternative
In our area, the Northern Virginia/D.C. area, renting the local hotel for a reception is about as expensive as renting a monster villa with staff that sleeps 30 in Mexico. To me it was a no brainer. However, unless you have a lot of relatives in Mexico, the wedding will involve a significant amount of travel and its related costs.
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Posted by Ken York at 7/12/2006 1:13 PM | View Comments (0) | Add Comment | Trackbacks (1)
Wedding Day Etiquette for the Father of the Bride
For the actual wedding day there are several things you should plan to accomplish. Your goal is to remain calm and direct the troops as they are going ashore at Normandy—D-day is here.
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Posted by Ken York at 7/11/2006 8:14 AM | View Comments (9) | Add Comment | Trackbacks (0)
Who is Ken York?
I'm ex-military (Air Force and Army) who survived the Vietnam War, invasion of Grenada, Philippines Revolution, and one kidnapping attempt in Thailand.
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Posted by Ken York at 7/7/2006 2:27 PM | View Comments (0) | Add Comment | Trackbacks (0)
Securing the best discounts for your daughter's wedding - bridal gown,
Filene’s Basement (http://www.filenesbasement.com/) has annual bridal gown sales, often referred to as the ‘Running of the Brides.’ Gowns up to $9,000 end up going for $700 and less. However, this is not an event for the faint of heart or men.
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Posted by Ken York at 7/7/2006 8:09 AM | View Comments (2) | Add Comment | Trackbacks (0)